Borderline Personality Disorder

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is a complex mental health condition that is characterised by intense and unstable emotions, self-image, and relationships. Individuals with BPD often experience difficulty regulating their emotions, have a fragile sense of self, and struggle with impulsivity.

Research indicates that a significant number of individuals with BPD have a history of complex trauma, often referring to chronic, interpersonal trauma experienced during childhood or early adolescence. This trauma can include emotional, physical, or sexual abuse, neglect, or other adverse experiences. Complex trauma can significantly impact emotional development and can contribute to the development of BPD symptoms.

    • ​Emotional Instability: Intense, rapid mood swings lasting from a few hours to a few days, often triggered by interpersonal stressors.

    • Fear of Abandonment: A pervasive fear of being abandoned or rejected, leading to frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment.

    • Unstable Relationships: Intense and tumultuous relationships marked by idealisation and devaluation, difficulty maintaining boundaries, and fear of real or perceived abandonment.

    • Distorted Self-Image: A fragmented or unstable self-image, often characterised by identity confusion, feelings of emptiness, and chronic feelings of inner emptiness or boredom.

    • Impulsivity: Impulsive behaviours such as substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating, self-harm, or impulsive spending.

    • Self-Destructive Behaviours: This can involve engaging in self-harming behaviours as a way to cope with emotional pain.

    • Chronic Feelings of Emptiness: A pervasive sense of emptiness or inner void that is difficult to fill, leading to a sense of constant longing.

    • Dissociation: Episodes of feeling disconnected from oneself, the environment, or a sense of reality, often triggered by stress or intense emotions.

  • Psychologists play a crucial role in providing support, assessment, and evidence-based treatment for individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder. Here are some ways they help:

    • Psychotherapy: Psychotherapy is the cornerstone of treatment for BPD. Psychologists utilise various therapeutic approaches, such as Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), and Schema Therapy, to address the core symptoms of BPD. These therapies focus on emotional regulation, improving interpersonal relationships, developing healthy coping strategies, and building a stronger sense of self.

    • Trauma-Informed Care: Psychologists recognise the impact of complex trauma on BPD and provide trauma-informed care. They create a safe and supportive environment, validate the individual's experiences, and help them process and heal from past traumatic events.

    • Medication Evaluation and Referral: Psychologists cannot prescribe medication, but they may collaborate with psychiatrists or primary care physicians to evaluate the need for medication. Medication can help manage specific symptoms of BPD, such as depression, anxiety, or impulsivity.

    • Supportive Counselling: Psychologists offer empathy, understanding, and a non-judgmental space for individuals to express their thoughts and emotions. Supportive counselling can provide validation and foster a therapeutic alliance, helping individuals feel heard and understood.

    • Skills Training: Psychologists often provide skills training, particularly in DBT, to help individuals develop effective emotion regulation techniques, distress tolerance skills, and interpersonal effectiveness strategies. These skills empower individuals to navigate challenging situations and foster personal growth.

    • Collaborative Care: Psychologists may work collaboratively with other mental health professionals, such as psychiatrists, social workers, or occupational therapists, to provide comprehensive care tailored to the individual's unique needs.

Borderline Personality Disorder is a complex condition that requires understanding, support, and effective treatment. There continues to be a lot of stigma associated with BPD. This stigma can be a deterrent from accessing much needed help and support. With the help of empathetic psychologists individuals with BPD can embark on a path to healing, resilience, and a more fulfilling life. If you have an existing diagnosis or would like to be assessed for BPD, reach out to Everyday Psychology to discuss treatment.